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Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.
Submissive vs. Dominant
Submission is not the easiest thing to do for people such as me, a control freak, still I was willing to try. The hardest part for me was not doing what I was told, I can handle that, it was having to not take the lead. I get off on the simplest of things and being the boss is the best thing to me. I can almost orgasm from hearing myself tell someone what to do to please me. “Don’t Stop!” “Harder, faster!” and my favorite “Please baby please!” never tend to get old. My experience was short lived but still long enough to know that it was not for me. Which is weird since I am a people pleaser and in all honesty I definitely was turned on enough to try again. Now I’m curious to know if I could get out of my head that I don’t like it. The most important thing to me is the person who I’m being submissive for. Same as when I’m being dominant because I can’t take on that role with everyone. My first time as a sub , my partner knew exactly what he wanted for me to do and was assertive without being aggressive. I could have very easily made to feel ashamed or scared .
By Chanelle Lahrmann6 years ago in Filthy
Make $3,000+ a Week Doing Next To Nothing *must read*
Make $3,000+ a Week Doing Next To Nothing If you've ever had any doubts about working within this wrecked society or even so much as leaving your house, then you might want to open your eyes a little wider for this one! Can you fathom financial freedom that brings new opportunities to the horizon? Something so simple as power, a scaling aggression, and a weak man could be your ticket out of this so called pay check to pay check lifestyle. Findom could change your life and get a silly rich man to empty his pockets.
By The Darkest Sunrise6 years ago in Filthy
Wait...you put WHAT in WHERE?
Figging: (Definition): inserting a piece of raw, peeled ginger into the anus, historically used for torture. This practice is now a method of corporal punishment in BDSM, a popular fetish, and has been altered to also include insertion into the vagina and urethra.
By Lorah Catherine6 years ago in Filthy
My Letter to @johnbaku on why FetLife Needs Dedicated Columnists
The following is a letter I sent to @johnbaku of FetLife. Many of us are seeking community, looking for the best ways to get ourselves out there, and want to learn about what matters to us. In the many moments of the day my curiosity, interest, and energy level changes. I want what I want and believe that FetLife is a better place to turn to then the 24 hour news cycle right now. I'm sharing my letter in hopes to get your thoughts and perhaps encourage change to better FetLife because this community has made a difference and connected so many of us over the years. The world you experience is the real world and talking with each other about what matters can make it better.
By Joseph Crown6 years ago in Filthy
Ummm...Daddy?
Sometimes Daddy has to change our plans. It's not his fault; he has a job that keeps him in contact with the most influential people in our city. We are often asked to dinner, and that requires that I be prepared to change evening plans at a moment's notice.
By Phoenixx Fyre Dean6 years ago in Filthy
Hello Officer
I wish... I WISH I could say I met this cop because I flirted my way out of a ticket. Alas, I have Tinder to thank. However, I'll probably take some creative liberty when I eventually write an erotic novel and make some bad joke about getting cuffed and put in the back seat for a different form of "going downtown."
By Xena Warrior6 years ago in Filthy
Sisterhood: Lorelei Lee
Lorelei Lee is a human being yet people assign them other identities all the time. Their main identifier is white. I would not call them, or their skin, white. Their skin is pigmented with flesh tones that crayons cannot imitate. Only pixels on a computer screen can come close to capturing the complexity of the color of their skin.
By Milcah Halili6 years ago in Filthy
Intro to Kink
We have the privilege to experience vast varieties of taste: sweetness, saltiness, bitterness, sourness, and savoriness — and tastes that are combinations of all five of these. The beautiful part is the realization that our cravings are different compared to other companions. We mix and match until we find combinations that thrill us from the inside out. We categorize food into “favorites” and “not so favorites.” This passion for taste that we, humans, are born to endure has created knowledgeable head chefs, bestselling cookbooks, and even the excitement that comes with being invited to a dinner party. The variation of taste has become a place of play and self-expression. Well, sex is like this too. Sex is totally like this.
By Mar Christiano6 years ago in Filthy
