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Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.

BDSM Masters/Mistress
A Master and Mistress are kinds of doms in the BDSM lifestyle. I may say Master more in this post, but I will mean Master or Mistress. Mistresses and Masters are the same thing, but a Master is the male term and Mistress is female. A lot of people do this lifestyle very differently, but I will tell you the basics and what the majority of the community can agree on. They usually are with a submissive who identifies as a slave. I wrote a whole story on here about slaves. Slaves are sometimes seen as objects and belongings. Most of the time they're seen as property to their Masters, wearing a collar. Masters sometimes even name their slaves.
By Lena Bailey7 years ago in Filthy
My Roommate's Hypnotic Lesson
My day had been long—too long. I'd spent 10 hours on my feet at the diner, then another three in Advanced Geometry 701. Who knew grad school would be so much work? After slogging home through the rain, I was just about ready to throw down my bag and collapse. I dropped my raincoat on a chair, flopped onto our overstuffed green couch, and unhooked my bra. A wiggle here, a shimmy there, and I was finally, gloriously free of its constraints. This was the best part of my day. I can't walk around without a bra because my boobs are just too big and my nipples stick out like lighthouses whenever the temperature drops a degree—or when a cute girl walks in. But being bra-less was the next best thing to walking around naked.
By Rhea Corvos7 years ago in Filthy
BDSM Protocol
So protocol means different things to different people but everyone can agree that a lot, if not all of it, has to do with respect. Respect and protocol are very important in lifestyle. If anyone that wants to be in your BDSM circle as a friend, play buddy, mentor, or whatever doesn't understand respect or protocol, then they need to keep it moving. Boundaries are a big part of protocol but we will talk about boundaries in another post because boundaries are a vanilla topic too.
By Lena Bailey7 years ago in Filthy
What BDSM Isn't Part 4
Even after doing other posts about this topic, I still found more myths about BDSM. You can say no. You don't always have to do whatever your partner wants. You also always have rights. I have heard so many times that the bottom or sub type doesn't have rights. Sub types can give up their rights if they want to but that's their choice. I may do a whole article about sub rights later. You can have boundaries; most people have them. The list of boundaries can be as long as it needs to be for you.
By Lena Bailey7 years ago in Filthy
What BDSM Isn't Part 3
If you have not read part one or two click on my name to go to my page to do so. One myth that I haven't heard but heard similar ones to is that BDSM is about hurting people and making them do things they don't want to do. There's so much wrong with this statement. First off people can ask not to be hurt. Secondly, the lifestyle is just not all these people running around hurting people. The good people in the lifestyle actually care about people and their boundaries. Third, people can set up boundaries and the right people will respect the boundaries of others. It's not always violent or painful.
By Lena Bailey7 years ago in Filthy
What BDSM Isn't Part 2
If you hadn't read part one click my name and do so now. So let's get back into this. We all know people judge or make up stuff about stuff they don't understand.
By Lena Bailey7 years ago in Filthy
What BDSM Isn't #1
So in one of my past posts I talked about how BDSM isn't abuse but there are so many more lies that people believe about the lifestyle. If you don't understand something you shouldn't judge it. There are some people that are in the lifestyle or have been in the lifestyle that don't understand what it is. There's also people who were in it and then had bad experiences or just really didn't like it and they badmouth the lifestyle. There are people who are doing it wrong and they give it a bad name. Yes, there is a way to do BDSM wrong, and we will talk about it through here.
By Lena Bailey7 years ago in Filthy
Put Daddy to the Test and Other Porn Trends
"Who's your daddy?" Men ask their lovers all the time. Some find it incredibly sexy and a turn on. While others are not as fond of the phrase or using a parental title with a lover.
By Edward Anderson7 years ago in Filthy
Scat!
Legend has it is that there's a porn tube that features videos of lesbians shitting all over each other. Even eating the shit. Smearing it all over themselves until they look like dehumanized, degraded, and animal-like subhuman savages. I wouldn't personally know, you understand. I'm a veritable choirboy when it comes to shit-scarfing.
By Tom Baker7 years ago in Filthy
Early Sexual History
I can remember my first day of grade school after I turned five years of age. My older sister, Sherry, was already in school, and I was excited about going myself. We got up that first day of school morning, and my mother helped us dress and fed us. Then we walked around to the school. She took Sherry to class first, and quickly headed around to my classroom with me. She talked to the teacher for a while, and I could hear the teacher tell her I was in good hands. They walked me over to one of the small tables where other children were seated, and sat me down. I was good right up until I realized my mother was leaving me there. When I realized that, I started crying like a baby, loud and I couldn’t stop. The teacher had to convince my mother to just leave and everything would be alright. That’s my memory of the start of school, and I was only there for half a day.
By One Iam7 years ago in Filthy
The Muscled Woman and the DJ
Something about the panorama, the sunset, the pure breathtaking beauty of the place and the way it invited me to reflect on the greatness of the Universe and my presence within it always filled me with wonder and a sense of peace.
By Johnny Seven7 years ago in Filthy
Are Sugar Daddies & Babies a Fetish?
I am done having this argument in the groups so I decided to write this article to share what I know. This is not an opinion, this is fact. I want all sugar babies and daddies (and mamas) have a great experience in sugar. I also don't want BDSM people to have to wade through sugar people to find BDSM. Newbies in both lifestyle think they know everything when they don't. I can't even find any articles that say it's a fetish.
By Lena Bailey7 years ago in Filthy