relationships
Love, sex, single, committed.
Stop Having Sex When You Don’t Want To
Sex: if you have too much of it, you’re a slut, and if you don’t have enough – you're a prude. You owe it to your partner. Your husband has a right to your body. Did you know orgasms cure headaches? Maybe you should get a different excuse.
By Harley Myers5 years ago in Filthy
Learning to Be Selective
I know I’ve been showing my snarky side a lot. It’s certainly a part of me that I feel comfortable letting loose a little bit here. Not only is this space akin to a private journal, but I find snark to be a bit more entertaining for my “readership” so to speak. Okay, I know I only have like 20 followers, but who knows? Maybe one day I’ll get a book deal out of this bitch! Humor & being a bit over-the-top has always been a means of surviving and fighting through challenges and hurt in my life. BUT – BUT – BUT – I’m actually a really nice person. I have long held the belief that when it comes to dating and people in general that everyone deserves a chance beyond first impressions. I know that sometimes folks have off days, but I also recognize intrinsic value in people. Maybe you’re a janitor, overweight, scarred, damaged, have a lisp or even an illness or disability – this shouldn’t define you as a person. People have lots of experiences and circumstances that bring them to different places in their life and I may not want to walk a mile in their shoes, but I’ll usually give them a shot and see what they’re about. I believe in being kind – at least until I have reason to tell you to fuck off.
By Allison Rice5 years ago in Filthy
Project Princess
I don’t know why God puts these sweet, innocent, delicate Angels in my life. I didn’t mean what I said to Bubba about the church girl, I didn’t realize that fine day at the Playground she was checking me out also. The Project Princess wanted to meet your boy she thought I was uniquely special, as I knew she was.
By Timothy Kincaid5 years ago in Filthy
First Meets and First Meats
Nearly a decade ago, I went through a divorce and started dating for the first time as an adult. When friends suggested I write about my experiences, I started a blog. I have been "revisiting" some of my former exploits lately, and decided to share, using my real name, for the first time. This piece was first published in March, 2013. Edits have been made for clarity and continuity.
By Allison Rice5 years ago in Filthy
Developing a Regular Roster and Making Some Cuts
Nearly a decade ago, I went through a divorce and started dating for the first time as an adult. When friends suggested I write about my experiences, I started a blog. I have been "revisiting" some of my former exploits lately, and decided to share, using my real name, for the first time. This piece was first published in March, 2013. Edits have been made for clarity and continuity.
By Allison Rice5 years ago in Filthy
April Fools & Year-round Fools
Nearly a decade ago, I went through a divorce and started dating for the first time as an adult. When friends suggested I write about my experiences, I started a blog. I have been "revisiting" some of my former exploits lately, and decided to share, using my real name, for the first time. This piece was first published in April, 2013. Edits have been made for clarity and continuity.
By Allison Rice5 years ago in Filthy
I Learned About Lingerie Through Loving
After many long years, I re-read her first letter, and remembered, as if it were my first reading, its fine musical intervention into my life, carrying its own breath, long lines, short ones, and setting real the lost images. It was the first of many beautiful letters I received from my wife during our marriage.
By harry hogg5 years ago in Filthy
Pandemic Playfulness
Nearly a decade ago, I went through a divorce and started dating for the first time as an adult. When friends suggested I write about my experiences, I started a blog. I have been "revisiting" some of my former exploits lately, and decided to share, using my real name, for the first time. This piece was first published in September, 2020, at the height of the COVID-19 Pandemic. Edits have been made for clarity and continuity.
By Allison Rice5 years ago in Filthy
