sexual wellness

Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.

Are You With Your Sexual Soul-mate?
Sex isn't always completely serious, romantic or "Fifty Shades" of intense. When you're with "the One," there's all kinds of emotions.
By Emily Adams9 years ago in Filthy
5 Reasons She's a Virgin in Her 20s
Let's start off like this. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin in your 20s! Adult virgins are tired of being called PRUDE for not having sex at a certain age or following the social clock in general. They are also tired of being portrayed as shy, helplessly innocent women awaiting the dominium of a man (eww! misogynistic much?). If I had a dime for every single time I heard, "You don't look like a virgin" or "You didn't tell me you were a virgin!" I could... realistically buy me a bottle of whiskey (I ain't got a lot of friends). It's very ironic to me because as women, if we have sex at an early age, we are slut shamed, if we have sex at a later age, we are prude and "unskilled" in the act. If you haven't had sexual intercourse in your 20s, 30s or older, that is completely fine and normal. Fuck the virgin shamers!
By PHILLY THE AFRICANA9 years ago in Filthy
Making Peace with the Penalty Box
There’s a deafening silence at the intersection of slut-shaming, toxic masculinity, and stigmatizing mental struggle, a hole where a conversation ought to be.
By Devyn onEarth9 years ago in Filthy
SexFiles: Part 3 (Brittany)
After Savannah, I was broken, I spent a while in and out of Juvi, found myself in a mental hospital on more than a few occasions, and basically gave up on love altogether. Then, I met Brittany. It IS kinda of messy how this all started with her, and I was older by a few years than she was. I was 18 when me and Brittany started fooling around, she had/has this childlike innocence that easily masks all of the pain and agony that she deals with on a daily. She's definitely someone who tends to try and find herself in other people. Now, at the time, I actually did care a lot about this girl. I was so blinded by having her around that I would even put myself in a position to be walked all over. She did mistreat me, but I took her purity and in that, she kind of just went crazy, became a slute for a while, and wound up with a daughter that she had to drop out of school for. This would be the story of WHEN I took her virginity.
By Zachery Lee9 years ago in Filthy
A Nineteen-Year-Old's Sex Diary Part 1
The first time I ever had sex I was sixteen years old. My parents think to this day that I am a virgin, probably due to the fact that my first love was a boy so Christian he went to church service twice a week and was involved in church activities almost every other day of the week.
By Iris9 years ago in Filthy
Is Depression Ruining Your Sex Life?
The short answer? Probably. The long answer: It's complicated. There is no doubt that the mind plays an integral role in sexual activities. In a successful sexual encounter, the mind and body are synchronized to maximize the pleasurable aspect of sex. But what happens when mind and body are not in sync?
By Celina Calma9 years ago in Filthy
SexFiles: Part 2 (Savannah)
So, now that we've gotten over one of the worst, I want to dig into one of the best. This one lasted roughly 6 months to a year. I legitimately LOVED this girl with all of my heart, but, in the end, found out she had been unfaithful to me in my darkest days. Either way, I present to you, Savannah.
By Zachery Lee9 years ago in Filthy
Just Sex. Good Sex. Magic Sex.
Don’t get me wrong, I don’t have a problem with that. I think what people do in the bedroom and the position they do it in, it’s not really my business. My point is that, with a little consideration and care in choosing the partner, sex can become the stuff of legends. For both sides.
By Oana Petrache9 years ago in Filthy
SexFiles: Part 1 (Lost Beyond Innocence)
As I've been delving into these creative/descriptive writing pieces about my life, I couldn't help but trace back to some of these Sexual Conquests I've been in BUT, bringing them up in the context of the stories I've already posted would be inappropriate for the chosen site distribution...SO, I've decided to break them down, and get REALLY descriptive in them piece by piece. So here's from first to last, The most memorable Sexcapades of my lifetime.
By Zachery Lee9 years ago in Filthy
The Chastity Project - Chapter Three
In my other blog - the autism one - I spoke about an encounter I had with a bull. I lived on a farm when I was young, and this bull used to terrify me. One day, I tried to stare it down, and it started shaking its head, stamping its hooves, snorting loudly - generally acting like a fucking psychopath. My nerve broke and I ran away from it. I was completely safe from it. It was in a pen, and there was no way it could get at me. But it was still a terrifying moment, for an eight-year-old boy.
By Graham Farquhar9 years ago in Filthy
The Local From Manchester
A couple of years ago I managed to secure myself a morbidly dull office job working in sales straight out of Compton- I mean university.
By Jai Pal9 years ago in Filthy
Ways to Incorporate Sex Into Your Daily Routine
You enter your front door after a long days work and all you can see is her. Looking all voluptuous and fresh and all you want to do is peel off your work clothes and climb right on top of her. Maybe even pour a glass of wine or two. I wish I could say I was talking about your partner, but I'm not. Unfortunately, I'm talking about your couch. What? You try and tell me with a straight face that the sight of your cool sofa after a long day doesn't make you all tingly inside. Does for me!
By Jus L'amore9 years ago in Filthy