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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

8 Signs That You've Given Other People Power over Your Life
It could be a co-worker or it could be someone closer to home, but chances are that someone is getting the best of you. They might be quite manipulative a lot, but the truth is that they probably have no idea they are hurting you because they are simply too focused on themselves.
By Test7 years ago in Humans
We Always Want What We Cannot Have
Look at the world—planet Earth; all 7.53 billion souls. I want you to pick out two. Two individuals of any gender, age, religion; across any of the seven continents, and seven seas, and five oceans; speaking any of the six thousand plus languages. Now, hope they are compatible.
By Danielle Oliver7 years ago in Humans
A Love Less Toxic
With so many things in the world that we consume depicting unhealthy, and sometimes downright abusive relationships as the pinnacle of romance (looking at you 50 Shades of Gray) it is important to examine how we are loving, and why we love the people we do. Sometimes, even with the best of intentions, we love from a place of selfishness, and it is important to examine ourselves and break poor habits. This is undoubtedly true when it will also affect another person—we are rarely ever only responsible for ourselves.
By Paige Graffunder7 years ago in Humans
Five Things to Know Before Deciding on a Roommate
Accepting a roommate into your home is the same as any relationship so, there are certain things that you need to know before you hand over the key, especially if you are the only other roommate. I know these things from much experience, and a lot of it not so good. Therefore, I would like to pass on my experience to you, the reader, so maybe you won't have to learn the hard way.
By Denise Willis7 years ago in Humans
Let’s Just Learn How to F.L.Y.
Back in the day when I was growing up, it was cool to be FLY! Fly at that time was a slang term that meant you were sharp, cool, cute and ready to take on the world. We used that word the way younger people nowadays use the world SLAY. I guess every generation has its own style of slang communication but I still use Fly from time to time.
By Denise Joyce Williams7 years ago in Humans
7 Signs You're Unhappy in Your Relationship... and What to Do About It
We all yearn for happy intimate relationships, yet often refuse to admit how unhappy we really are. Here are seven symptoms to look for:
By Jane Wyker7 years ago in Humans
3 Things a Man Does That a Woman Misreads as Him Liking Her
To inquire about hiring me as your dating coach, email me here. I totally get it. Being single and putting yourself out there isn't easy! You risk getting rejected or falling in love and him not feeling the same way. The dating game is super tricky to navigate simply because there are no rules. You literally make them up as you go along.
By Heart Centered Universe7 years ago in Humans
Relationship Advice I Wish I Knew Before
First off, I am in no way an expert. I have on the other hand, had a colorful past in relationships. I don't mean that I have had numerous relationships, I have had five. Including my now husband. What I mean is each guy was totally different from the others. My guess is I was trying to find what I now have with my husband.
By Valentina Sophia7 years ago in Humans
Don't Waste Your Time If You See These Red Flags
Nowadays, some men, in general, are confusing, but I am noticing more that ALL MEN are confusing, period. Their words and actions do not coincide. Women think that men mature the older they get. However, that is not always the case. Unfortunately, they can mature in some ways, but not in one specific category—the courting of women and relationships. Apparently, men think that they are a good gift to us. I am sorry, I beg to differ. I had an experience with this older man that I met. Mind you, when I first met him, I thought I had meet the ideal man. It was an instant feeling I had. After months of dealing with him, though, I started to see a lot of red flags.
By Margarita Maria7 years ago in Humans
10 Signs He's Not Really in an Open Relationship
Blane was the type of guy that all the girls at school happened to have a crush on. He was a tall, handsome guy with muscles and a football scholarship. The strapping senior was in a fraternity, remained very popular, and even had teachers who enjoyed seeing him around.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart7 years ago in Humans
When Did You Know?
Do you remember the first time you found out with confirmation of proof or the truth that you had been betrayed by the one you thought was yours? That he/she had cheated? That he/dared to touch, feel, taste another that wasn’t you? I do!
By Erika Fries7 years ago in Humans
The Memoir of a Pre-Teen
(DISCLAIMER): everything I write comes straight from my opinion and my point of view. Hello, my name is Audrey and, as you would expect from the title, I am a preteen and I hate it. It’s not exactly the definition of hell, but it sure is not something I look forward to day after day.
By Audrey Madden7 years ago in Humans