breakups
When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.
2017 I felt like I changed
In 2017, I felt like I had changed into something, not someone but something. I used to be brave and not afraid to do things; my anxiety and panic attacks have gotten out of control to the point where I don’t want to leave my home. I used to go out with my husband, clubbing and making friends; I was so social and outgoing.
By stephanie borges5 years ago in Humans
Dear Diary
It’s not you it’s me is heard across the world in so many different languages. Personally I’ve never said the words it’s not you it’s me but I have heard it. It’s not you it’s me...humm now what could that person mean by that statement. So you ask well at least for me I asked, “what do you mean it’s not you it’s me”? There’s an occurred silence and there’s this huge elephant in the room that’s has entered the room.
By Savannah Mason5 years ago in Humans
When It's Time To Let Go
There is a huge portion of me that believes we all have blindly loved someone at least once to the point that we took ourselves apart in order to gently dismantle the red flags that have been tortuously waved in our faces by the ones we love. We have changed ourselves at some point to suit the eye of a person who doesn't even value us as human.
By The Darkest Sunrise5 years ago in Humans
3 Things That Overwhelm You After a Breakup
So you recently broke a romantic bond with your ex, perhaps you finished on good terms — whoever initiated the breakup and the relationship wasn’t all bad, or bad at all. And perhaps somewhere deep inside you are even grateful that the two of you split up. You know it wasn’t meant to be, continue, and last for a multitude of reasons.
By Lucy Milanova5 years ago in Humans
Ghosting in Relationships
Ghosting in today's world is disappearing without a trace, no phone calls, no texts, no Facetiming to let you know what's up. It's heartbreaking and at first you think they'll call and sometimes you let your pride go and text them but no answer. That's what ghosting is, then you figure something came up or they are at working and their phone is on mute. But the reality is that they don't have the decency to let you know its over. I've been ghosted before too many times. I been ghosted by a ex boyfriend after I paid his phone bill, by another ex boyfriend who flirted with one of my friends at my birthday party, my daughter's father who I recently found out is serving in the military and will be home for Thanksgiving. And last but not least my current boyfriend soon to be ex who works two jobs and thinks it's my fault we don't spend time together. And hopefully my story will help someone not be stupid when it comes to guys.
By Martanel Edwards5 years ago in Humans
The Ex Chronicles
They say you look back on your first love as a waste, a lie, a concoction of false emotion and hormonal imbalance. We never consider it to be real love, but it still is. It is as much of love as we can understand at the time. That is the negative aura encapsulating the feelings of my first love for as long as I can remember. This could be because it was elementary school. A playground love story that never really became anything much to mention at all. It happened to also be one-sided; a trend that many of my relationships came to follow in the future. Guess I could say this was my first stop on the train of loving boys who could never love me back.
By Christine C5 years ago in Humans
