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Advice that will put you on the path to success; tips, tricks and nuggets of wisdom from trusted experts and motivational mentors.
To Motivate Is a Choice and a Lifestyle
You know I've spent a lot of my time thinking of reasons why people were constantly being negative. More than anything, I would ponder how good people would allow those same negative people to be around them for no good reason at all. Even if it was a short period of time, I just simply wouldn't risk it. Thinking to myself, "Damn, you can't even give these people a split second or they would have had enough time to make you negative too." It must be contagious or something, because I see it all the time, and it's almost as if these people make it a lifestyle and won't be okay until they bring negativity to the world. I mean it's like a job they have! Are these people employed with the negativity? LOL, just kidding.
By Josue Manuel Sanudo7 years ago in Motivation
Never Lose to Your Negative Tendencies Again
When was the last time you looked at yourself, I mean really looked? Everywhere we turn, there are people who have specific tendencies, good or bad, that can have a direct effect on them. Have you been able to identify yours?
By Dr Erik Scott (Dmin)7 years ago in Motivation
Finding Joy in Transitioning to Adulthood
Growing up can be a challenge for so many people that are transitioning into adulthood. Once high school graduation is over it comes time to consider what they will be doing for the rest of their lives. It is a challenging decision that requires a lot of insight before a decision is made.
By Kevin7 years ago in Motivation
Being an Actor
"Oh, it must be so glamorous to be an actor!" This is something that you hear so much, when the reality is so different. 95% of actors are out of work and known as 'resting actors'. This was me for many years—working as a paper girl, a waitress, flyering on street corners. I'm fortunate now as I have a few projects already in the pipeline and films I have worked on are starting to be released in some cinemas (hooray!). Guys, this has taken fifteen years of my life, sacrifices that I have made to keep the dream and hope alive. If you want to be an actor, your skin needs to be as thick as a crocodile's skin! I can assure you that you can do it. Take the rejections as lessons, rather than failures. Once, I was told after being down to the last two actors for a role, "Sorry, Rachel, you are so talented, but your cheekbones are wrong for the character". I mean, I couldn't exactly say I'd go to a plastic surgeon to maybe change my cheekbones...so instead of destroying my face I thought, "what good can I take away from this rejection?" 1) I got down to the last two out of thousands of women, 2) they said I was very talented.
By Rachel Warren7 years ago in Motivation
Make A Wish
Make a wish they said when I blew out the candles on my birthday cake. But I knew my wish would never come true because of the manipulative and restrictive ways of my Guardian. Anything I had aspired to do, she had to say no to for some stupid reason. I wanted to be an air traffic control officer—no; I wanted to be an auto mechanic, oh, that's a man's job, she said. I wanted to be a horse trainer—those jobs are not for women, she would say.
By Emily A Dinwiddie7 years ago in Motivation
Dealing with Pressure from People Around You
Have you ever had someone in your life that seems to be succeeding more? Or your classmates from college who are actually doing what you both studied for? How about that classmate that you have right now in high school who’s just the best at everything he/she does? There will always be one or more people around you who you will think that they are doing a lot more than you do.
By Cara Celestin7 years ago in Motivation
Recipe for Living a Healthy and Stress-Reduced Life
Staying healthy is like baking a perfect cookie. All you need are the right ingredients. What tends to happen with health, though, is, all too often, people tackle getting healthy by doing too much at once. That never works!
By Steven Walker7 years ago in Motivation
Financial Insecurity with Students and Self-Worth
It has come to my attention that a lot of students deal with financial insecurities, and it has influenced their day to day lives. Meanwhile, this is a time in their life where they should be experiencing life itself and accepting what they consider a “failure”as a lesson and using it as a tool to mold their future to what they would want it to be and support each other.
By Isabella Theresa7 years ago in Motivation
The World Thanks You for Being Positive
As I capture the moment above, I say out loud, thank you. But it's not just when I experience abundance in life that I say, thank you. I preface my thoughts and reactions with gratitude, and thus I have trained myself to start my sentence/reaction with “Thank you!”
By Lorraine Da Brain7 years ago in Motivation
How Do I Love Myself?
I spend my nights in dislocation, in morbid solitude. Boundless static closes in, only to be swallowed by the peripheral ether of my mind. The television squawks its electrical pulse to the beat of my restless gray matter. I am sprawled across a leather couch, barely in the realm of the conscious as the fellas on the screen send me their best, asphyxiating standards of living no human being can hope to ascertain.
By Ryder Pittz7 years ago in Motivation
Negative Thoughts
Negativity is 100 percent inevitable in life. There is no way around it, only through it. You know what is inevitable to some extent? Our negative thoughts. Pick any negative memory or feeling you keep replaying and reminiscing over in your head. Now imagine them as concrete blocks or bricks that you are holding in your arms. It makes your arms sore, makes you tired and slow. It wears you out, and takes your energy for the day. That is what our negative thoughts do to us. Our negative thoughts are unwanted pests that our mind creates to slow us down and hinder us. Close your eyes and visualize putting your concrete blocks down, and walking away from them, not looking back. For me, I imagine the Crucifix and leaving my concrete blocks at the feet of Jesus on the Cross. It is in our best interest to let go of our negative thoughts, whether it be fear, or worry, or anything in-between. It is best for us to let go of the negativity in our thoughts, because it dictates our life. If we let negativity control our minds, it controls our life.
By Lili Arratia7 years ago in Motivation
