sexual wellness
Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.
All the Things I Wish Someone Told Me About Sex
Let's start with a bit of background. I grew up in Texas, meaning my sex education was already lacking. The most memorable thing from that class was not even the curriculum, it was how uneducated my peers were in what I thought was common knowledge, double wrapping, the pull out method, and how STDs are transmitted. I remember a kid honestly thinking homo sapien meant we were calling him gay. So I decided to go out and get the information for myself. First off seeing as my teacher was an older male he even admitted to being uncomfortable teaching us about what sex would do to our female bodies. So I turned to the internet as a high school freshman fearing the day that I would have to fling myself into womanhood because all the adults in my life said it would hurt and that I was giving away the most vulnerable part of myself. Even my mother with her purple dyed hair and her seemingly accepting nature had me convinced that sex was not to be happily anticipated. But the years went by and I realized there was nothing to be afraid of, so I delved deeper into the internet's cornucopia of knowledge and decided it was not up to anyone else what would happen to my body. Sex is just SEX, it doesn't have to mean anything and there was no harm in learning what I would like. And so I took the leap and had sex for the first time with a boy I felt safe with.
By Maria Gutierrez8 years ago in Filthy
Simple Anal Sex Tips for Women
Listen, it's not as complicated as you may think — I mean, it's certainly not rocket science, but anal sex tips for women can either get extremely hairy or sticky. I guess it depends on taste, age, orientation and overall sexual level, which can all sometimes be pretty difficult to tell. Vaginal sex gets boring, so it's OK to switch it up for a change.
By Lizzie Boudoir8 years ago in Filthy
What People Don’t Tell You About Sex
First thing is you don’t have to know everything. In fact, learning is half the fun. If it’s both you and your partner’s first time then take time with it. You aren’t meant to be all ‘wham bam, you’re welcome ma’am.’ I know this isn’t much comfort but it’s the best advice anyone could give you.
By Sophie Young8 years ago in Filthy
Sexual Demographics
Don’t worry, we all are, you little psycho, and yes, it’s probably best to discuss this so you can get a general idea of how crowded your bed really is. Depending on the person you're involved with, you should define certain characteristics. Depending on the answers, you will rate your partner from 1 to 10, 1 being an unattractive type and 10 a highly attractive individual. Multiply their rating by a magnitude of 5 if they are a female or 10 if they are a male. Compute the math then ask the magical question. (This article is better relatable to people inhabiting metropolitan cities.)
By virtual Spec8 years ago in Filthy
Straight Talk About Herpes and How You Get It
You can get herpes in a variety of ways. It is silent, however, which means you could have herpes and not even know you have it. Herpes type 1 is oral herpes, which means that it turns into a cold sore. Cold sores are easy to treat give or take the method you use, such as topical anti-viral medication available over the counter. What you do not want to do is have oral sex with somebody who has a cold sore, which could mean that you can contract herpes from unprotected oral sex, without using a dental dam for protection with either gender.
By Iria Vasquez-Paez8 years ago in Filthy
Safe Sex or No Sex
Safe sex involves using various forms of protection such as the condom, spermacide, or female condom. The pill is a somewhat effective form of contraception that prevents pregnancy. A diaphragm is also a form of protection although the best protection is no sex. Birth control implants or IUDs (intrauterine devices) work to protect against pregnancy. Safe sex or no sex because you want protection against sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Dental dams also work after oral, anal, or vaginal sex. Any barrier of any kind helps protect against skin-to-skin contact or fluids, which can spread the STD.
By Iria Vasquez-Paez8 years ago in Filthy
Breaking the Porn Addiction
Let's set something straight, you want to drop this addiction behind, right? It's consuming your life and you want better for yourself. Trust me, I've been there before and found it hard to break out of, but it's never to late. Now, I'm not here to explain the effects porn addictions have on people; I'm here to give tips and strategies to help overcome the addiction. So let's explore these together.
By David Sinclair8 years ago in Filthy
