sexual wellness

Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.

Why I Don’t Regret Having Sex at a Young Age...
Growing up, I was pretty much stuck on the other end of my parents leash. I was always being supervised, I felt as if I had no freedom whatsoever.
By Ella Paige8 years ago in Filthy
Sexy Dirty Love
Let's talk about love. No, actually let's talk about sex. Such a fun topic to talk about, isn't it. I'm sure when you're hanging with your girlfriends or your buddies, this topic comes up frequently. You probably talk about that person you met at the bar, how you took them home with you, and played all night long. Or maybe you talk about your sex life with your partner. Maybe you like sending naughty pictures, or maybe you like having someone new in your bed every night. If you're a girl, you probably go into all the raw, dirty details. C'mon ladies, you know you and your girlfriends do that. Me and mine do! Boys? Well, I'm not a guy so I don't really know, but I'm sure you do, too.
By Bryanna Burshnick8 years ago in Filthy
Things You Didn't Know About Having Pregnant Sex
Many people have mixed thoughts when it comes to having sex while pregnant. Will it hurt the baby? Can I orgasm? Will my back ache afterwards? Even after asking these questions to themselves, many pregnant woman still choose to have sex. Just because they're pregnant doesn't mean they can't have sex. If you're not carrying twins, you can have sex while you're pregnant (I'll get to that later). In fact, there's a few pros and cons while having pregnant sex. Some of the cons are life threatening, so be cautious.
By Rachel Blanchard8 years ago in Filthy
STDs: What They Are
Here is a general discussion on STDs, which is something that everybody needs to understand, as well as have treated. We will start with herpes. Herpes is terrifying because it doesn’t really have many symptoms with the carriers not really knowing they have herpes to begin with. Herpes is a blister around the genitals or anus. The first time it outbreaks can be the most painful, but additional outbreaks aren’t so bad. The only treatment is antiviral medications that can help repress or prevent outbreaks. Herpes can be transmitted through unprotected sex, although the best cure for not contracting a painful illness like this is monogamy with one partner. Condoms may or may not work since abstinence is more effective than actually infecting somebody with herpes because you can’t keep a lid on it.
By Iria Vasquez-Paez8 years ago in Filthy
Communication in the Bedroom
I am known for being a "Susie-talks-a lot" to my friends and family. While I might be a little shy at first glance, the second I warm up to you there is no stopping my mouth. I’ll be the first to admit that my stories can be annoying. Instead of going from A-Z I have to stop at L, P, and Q before getting to my actual story. However, until recently, my mouth didn’t do much of anything in the bedroom.
By Ashlyn Harper8 years ago in Filthy
Doing Her Like a Real Man
Follow me. I've got a story to tell you. I watched this porn video the other day where this chick was totally into it... totally getting laid into, and right at this point where she's really enjoying it (you can see on her face, she's really having a good time), the dude sticks his finger in her mouth from behind (this was all happening from behind) and pulls on her face like a fish hook. Totally surprised her, but she went right with it, and the scene rolled on.
By Gary Nave8 years ago in Filthy
Sexual Cravings
Where do I start? I have a strong sexual craving at times. Yes, I'm in a healthy relationship. The sex with him is amazing. However, I just sometimes want something more. Something different, in a thought. I've been with women in the past and it was a nice change from the normal pounding from general sex. It was nice to be treated like a delicate flower for a few moments in silence. I sometimes have that desire to go back to that. Who am I kidding? Sometimes is an understatement. I always want to go back to it!
By Friday Vibes8 years ago in Filthy
Healthy is Sexy
Hi there, let's have a chat about some sexy stuff. Now, it may seem weird, but looking after your sexual health should be just as important as looking after anything else. Unfortunately, not everyone treats it as such. One reason why is because it can be a bit embarrassing, but it’s just the same as any other physical problem. If something gets left untreated, or questions get left unasked, then things can get a lot worse. When things get worse, they can affect our mental health, too. If you have pain, that can make you stressed and upset. If you are worrying about a relationship, that can make you feel depressed or anxious. The first step to looking after your sexual health is to be honest with yourself.
By L H8 years ago in Filthy
Virginity
I don't understand why people make such a big deal about maintaining or the lack there of maintaining your virginity. Over the last few days I've come across multiple articles talking about people who didn't lose their virginity until their later years or still haven't. In these stories, the adjectives sad and lonely always seem to be paired to them and I'm over it!
By O8 years ago in Filthy
Boys Like to Fuck... But Girls Don't?
I was 16 when I lost my virginity. In my best friend's little brother's bed as she slept away downstairs. It wasn’t terrible. But it wasn’t brilliant either. I didn’t cry or bleed or wither in pain. I simply took it. Which led to a long time of taking it (and giving it too. I’m not the sort to simply lie about as the boy does all the work. No way Jose.)
By Little Wanderer8 years ago in Filthy
The Do's and Don'ts of a Tasty Vagina
Your pressed up against the wall, tongues intertwined as he jams his knee between your thighs, while sensually groping your breasts. He watches your face as it lights up with delight and smirks as he realizes the control he has over you every movement. He teases you ever so gently and then gives you a bit more until you can’t take it anymore, his knee soaked by your juices. He kneels down ripping your panties to the side as he slips his tongue as deep as he can without your vagina swallowing him whole. Those few seconds between the time he kneels down and slips his tongue inside are literally the scariest and longest seconds to every girl, regardless of how comfortable she may be with her sexuality.
By Erika Potap8 years ago in Filthy
Just Ask
Most women have experienced the fumbling, callous, bruising touch of an inexperienced man. It is often apparent long before any clothes come off: the tongue thrust down an unsuspecting throat, the grip of fingers on a tender waist, words that are growled right out of a porno script regardless of the earlier ordinary conversation. If a woman likes a guy enough, they might tolerate it in the hope of training the guy later. Otherwise, no one is leaving that situation happy.Yet, from everything that I have seen or heard from my long-time single male friends, they never mean to hurt or discomfort their partners. If anything, they desperately want to please their potential partner—if only just so that they can keep seeing that person.Despite that desire, men often mangle their first physical interaction wit. I don't think it is just a matter of getting carried away in their desire to be satisfied. Instead, I think that these men have a very confused idea of what is expected of them in a physical relationship.
By Haybitch Abersnatchy8 years ago in Filthy